Spanking leads to sexual issues?

March 31st, 2008 by shayknows

Well, here’s one more reason to NOT spank your kids:

The University of New Hampshire released a study that says spanked children grow up to have lives full of sexual problems. They surveyed 14,000 students and found that kids that were spanked grew up to become sexually coercive with their partners.

Hmmm … now I realize that spanking is done less today than 30 years ago but weren’t most of our parents spanked on a regular basis? I know, I know … let’s not go there!In any case, the study found that there was a strong relationship between the amount of spanking or hitting these people experienced as a children and the likelihood of later verbally or physically forcing their partners to have sex; i.e., holding down, tying up or hitting.

The study claims to prove that “each increase of one step in the measure of corporal punishment was associated with a 33-percent increase in the probability of men (physically) forcing sex and 27-percent increase in the probability of women doing this.”

Professor of Sociology and Co-Director of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire, Murray A. Straus, says, “These results, together with the results of more than 100 other studies, suggest that spanking is one of the roots of relationship violence and mental health problems.”

I wonder what problems these time outs might cause. We don’t spank our little darlings but we’d better put a little extra money in our kids’ therapy fund just in case.

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Some things I just don’t need to know!

March 20th, 2008 by shayknows

I have three rules about eating dessert:

1. Eating while standing up in my kitchen reduces or eliminates the calories.

2. Anything that I take a bite of that belongs to my children or my husband has no calories.

3. This one is universal. If I eat something fattening, it can be canceled out by eating or drinking something that is sugar free.

So here I am just minding my own business when I get an email newsletter about Easter.

Sure, all those chocolate Easter bunnies, jelly beans, and marshmallow chicks look cute and harmless, but watch out! The calories in these Easter goodies add up quick. For example:

1 chocolate covered marshmallow egg: 100 calories
25 small jellybeans: 140 calories
1 small chocolate bunny (1 ounce): 140 calories
5 Peeps: 160 calories
8 malted milk eggs: 170 calories
1 Cadbury creme egg: 170 calories
1 Cadbury caramel egg: 190 calories
1 large chocolate bunny (7 ounces) 1050 calories

I really didn’t need to know that … but how many calories do you think just the chocolate ear is worth?

Chocolate Bunny V2

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